I support the amendments which have been resubmitted following the debate on Committee Stage. I am disappointed the Minister did not table any amendments to this Bill, although she met the various groups which have an interest in it.
The courts seem to forget that the welfare of children should be of paramount importance in cases of marital breakdown.
I am very conscious there is a group of school-children in the Visitors' Gallery. The key issue in such situations should be the welfare of the children of any marriage or relationship. We can talk about rights, obligations, access and custody, but let us not forget that any child has a right to know his or her parents and to be influenced by them. That is the ideal situation. Of course, difficulties can arise leading to the breakdown of marriages and relationships, and unfortunately children can get hurt in such situations.
These amendments deal with parents' access to their children. However, in addition to a right to access to their children, parents also have an obligation to look after them. Our court system has until now tended to give custody rights almost exclusively to mothers. We need a sea change in our approach to such matters and how our courts deal with such difficulties. Many fathers are told by the courts that they must provide money to maintain their families and pay the mortgage and that they can bring their children to the Zoo or McDonalds for a day every fortnight. That is not satisfactory from the point of view of the father or the children, who have a right to know their parents.
On the last occasion I outlined the very sad situation of a man I know whose marriage broke down. I will not attribute blame for the breakdown but neither he nor his wife has entered another relationship. There was a court hearing to decide custody of the children and other matters. This man has a very modest income with a take home pay of less than £250 a week. The court decided he should continue to pay the mortgage on the family home, pay £100 a week to his wife to maintain the family home and their three children and that he should leave the family home. When he went to collect his belongings he found them in suitcases outside the door and he was not allowed inside the house. He can only afford to live in a small one bedroom flat 15 miles from his family home. He has access to his children every second weekend.
How can that man look after his 15 year old daughter and two younger children in a one bedroom flat? His children no longer want to spend every second weekend with him. Why should they have to put up with very inferior living accommodation every second weekend, removed from the familiarity of their home and its creature comforts such as a television and computer? Let us bear in mind that he has a 15 year old daughter. That situation is totally unsatisfactory and, while I do not want to criticise any court or judge, it is also unjust. That man and his children are being treated unfairly.
The Minister might ask what solution I have. I do not have all the answers but we need to have much more discussion on this matter and examine how other countries cope with such situations. Given that our overriding consideration must be the welfare of the child, we should have a revolving parent system where instead of the children moving out of the family home to visit their father he would move into the home and his wife would move out when it is his turn to look after the family. In that way, the children would remain in their familiar surroundings with access to their friends and the adults, who should be better able to cope with such situations, could make their own arrangements.
It will be said that such a system is unworkable. It would be difficult, of course. Perhaps the husband might not do the hoovering or clean the cooker over the weekend. The Minister of State, Deputy Wallace, was very amused when I mentioned that the last day. Difficulties can arise over who does the hoovering in stable relationships also. The husband might be unhappy with the condition of the house. However, the overriding consideration is not whether the parents are content but the children's welfare. This system works to a limited extent in Spain and Denmark.
In Ireland, the mother is invariably granted custody of the children with the father given limited access. The situation is slightly better for the well off who can take their children to reasonable surroundings when they have access to them. I support these amendments because we must face up to the fact that we need a change in our courts. The existing legislation does not indicate to which parent custody should be given but leaves it to the discretion of the courts. I am in favour of the strong matriarchal influence in Ireland. However, given the changes in society, we must review what is happening within these courts and how their decisions affect people's lives.
I am disappointed that the Bill does not include greater direction to the courts to look at the responsibilities of the parents on the basis that each parent has equal responsibilities and the child has the right to know his or her parents and to be influenced by them. Earlier in the debate, the Minister of State mentioned that an overriding concern was the requirement of the UN document on the status of children, which contains a statement on the rights of children, including their right to know their parents. That must be taken into consideration.
Will the Minister of State reconsider the situation and look again at how the wishes of many fathers who have been badly treated can be accommodated? It may not be a macho thing to say, but men also have feelings and can feel cut off from their children and worthless when they do not have access to give them the kind of attention they need.
All Members of this House know that children need our attention, even if we can only telephone home when we are in Dublin. The Minister of State does not yet have any children dealing with homework. It gets worse when they enter secondary school. I was a teacher for 20 years and I know how difficult it can be to tutor young people on their homework over the telephone.
The right of children to have access to their parents can be lost if the courts do not adopt a fair approach to the question of custody. I support these amendments and I hope that, even at this late stage, the Minister of State may decide to accept them.