Marriage Equality is a national advocacy organisation whose goal is to achieve equality for LGBT people in Ireland through the extension to same sex couples of access to civil marriage, that is, marriage in a registry office, not a church. Currently, LGBT people in Ireland cannot get married. In January 2011, civil partnership was introduced in Ireland for same sex couples and for the first time same sex relationships were recognised and granted many of the rights and obligations available to married heterosexual couples. This marked a truly huge moment, a significant evolution for the State and Irish society. We celebrate it as a significant first step and thank all members of the committee for the parts they played in this achievement.
However, civil partnership is not the same as civil marriage and it is not equality. There is, therefore, more work to be done to end discrimination against LGBT families. Recent research published by Marriage Equality, entitled "Missing Pieces", highlights over 160 legislative differences between civil marriage and civil partnership, ranging from rights around the family home, finance, immigration, legal procedures, parent and child relationships to administrative rules and regulations. However, we are almost there. Public support in Ireland for marriage equality has grown from 56% in 2008 to 73% in 2011. Now is the time for equality for same sex couples and families in Ireland.
More and more countries continue to open up marriage to same sex couples. Currently same sex couples can marry in ten countries, including the Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Portugal and Iceland, where the Prime Minister, Johanna Sigurdardottir, married her long-term partner in June 2010 as a new law legalising marriage for same sex couples came into force. Two more countries allow lesbian and gay couples to marry on part of their territory, six states in the US and the capital, Washington DC, and the federal capital in Mexico. Last week President Obama joined other world leaders such as UK Prime Minister, David Cameron, and the French President, François Hollande, as public supporters of marriage equality for same sex couples. This truly is a pivotal time for the campaign for equality for same sex couples, our families and our children throughout the world.
In Ireland, the Government has promised to consider the provision of same sex marriage in the context of a constitutional convention this year. Marriage equality now has cross-party support. It is a core Labour Party policy and Sinn Féin and the Green Party have also supported the right for many years. Earlier this year Fianna Fáil's members passed a motion of support for it at their Ard-Fheis, and Fine Gael members passed a motion calling on the Government to prioritise dealing with, in the words of the programme for Government, "the provision of same sex marriage" in the constitutional convention. For all these reasons, 2012 is a pivotal time for the campaign for equality for same sex families.
The discussions about marriage equality are situated in a larger debate about our values as Irish people and the underlying principles of family, diversity and equality. A total of 73% of Irish people do not want to deny LGBT people the right to marry. They know that denying friends and family members the freedom to marry is wrong, is not fair and has no place in today's Ireland. This reflects Ireland today – our capacity, our understanding and our empathy. We are grown up enough to say, "That person may not be exactly the same as me, but that is okay; they still deserve the same rights as me and to be treated equally." Marriage is about loving committed couples who want to make a lifetime promise to take care of and be responsible for each other, in good times and bad. That is why, for example, spouses can apply to amend incorrect personal information held by the State about their spouse, including when their spouse is deceased. This protection and many others, over 160, are not available to civil partners.
Denying someone the chance at happiness that comes with being married, just because they are gay, seems hurtful to the majority of Irish people. Denying children protections and rights because of their parents' sexuality is even worse. All over Ireland mothers and fathers who are lesbian or gay are raising children in loving homes and doing the best they can for their children, just like every other parent. How can we justify ignoring Irish children and their rights? Marriage Equality's report, "Voices of Children", gave young adult children with lesbian and gay parents the opportunity to come together and document their experiences of growing up in Ireland and the impact the lack of marriage equality and other legal gaps had on their lives. They described experiences of homophobia in public spaces, such as schools, in contact with health services and in private spaces, such as friends' homes. These ranged from parents not being allowed to collect them from schools because they were not recognised as a legal parent or guardian to one boy's friend not being allowed to play in his home because he had two mothers. One young woman told a heartbreaking story, which still haunts me. She was prevented from saying goodbye to her mother as she lay dying in hospital by her mother's parents.
The committee can help to stop this happening. As the Ombudsman for Children said in her report relating to the civil partnership Bill in July 2010: "It should be borne in mind that this is not a hypothetical problem. The omission of robust protections for the children of civil partners will have real consequences for the young people concerned and it is in their interests that the law reflect and provide for the reality of their lives".